The first time I heard this saying was, back in 2020 whilst I was on Facebook messenger with a friend, I asked him to disconnect me. You see I questioned our friendship spanning 23 years and how I perceived that had an undesired effect on his relationship with his girlfriend. Whether this was factual or not I never got to the bottom of it. I would never get a straight answer to any of my questions. Phrases like "A wonder keeps it alive" were things I had repeatedly heard. It was never "I don't want to tell you" or "none of your business".
Whatever comes let it come!
Updated: Jan 22, 2022