I have been focusing on my solution in a recent meeting with John Lenhart, the Subject turned to Marriage, and how improving the marriage can remove 50% of the issues parents face with dealing with challenges their children present.
A few days ago, Richard and I celebrated our 22nd Wedding Anniversary.
On Monday, John and I met and the topic of conversation turned to how every marriage is a reflection of how the couple dated.
How there is no logic behind dating and in fact, every 11-year-old learns from another 11-year-old how to date!
(Having been brought up in Iran, this was completely alien to me as I grew up under very strict conditions and was not allowed to talk to anyone of the opposite gender from the age of 9. Not even my best friend who happened to be an 8-year-old boy from the day I turned 9.
That is when my father introduced me to Hijab)
Since Monday I have been working on an extract, focussing on how my own personal experience from the age of 13 to when and how I went about settling down.
This is a comprehensive discussion about what constitutes a happy marriage which also involves digging deeper into Self-esteem and the different thought processes.
I also touch on having a blendable lifestyle, shared values, and Chemistry.
A deeper dive into defining these terms.
Towards the latter part of this video, I shared how setting up iandyoumatter, has put a different dynamic in our relationship since Covid 2020. Something we are still battling with especially knowing what could be...
Also some links for further thoughts...
Sometimes it's good to slow down and ask what am I doing and why?
What is most important to you?
What is the alternative?
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